Author and wisdom-carrier Stephen Jenkinson returns for a deeply textured, no-BS unpacking of Matrimony — his newest cultural autopsy. We track the broken shards of our seemingly antiquated wedding traditions back to their source, dissect the difference between promises and vows, and talk about what happens when ritual life flatlines into spectacle. Stephen calls out the privatization of love, the poverty of “authentic,” and the radical hospitality required to make a vow matter.
This is not a “how to plan your special day” conversation. It’s a clear-eyed, occasionally confronting exploration of what matrimony could be if we had the chops, the courage, and the cultural literacy to make it real.
https://danikatz.com/blog/b/vows-vs-promises-matrimony-in-the-age-of-broken-rituals
I received a pitch today that perfectly illustrates how people unknowingly talk themselves out of alignment—simply through sloppy languaging.
This is the kind of thing we unpack deeply here:
How words shape power dynamics
How projection creates resistance
How precision opens doors
This video is a teaser for a solo episode coming next week where I go much deeper.
Curious what you notice as you watch 👀
Every word matters.
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Emily and I tackled the Aubrey threesome situation by way of my own experience dating a married couple, which made the cover of the LA Weekly back in 2008. We also dive into the latest shenanigans from our favorite WHINEstein brothers.
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If you’re ready to ditch the excuses, own your reality, and unlock some serious life upgrades, this is your spot. Know Thyself Salon is where deep self-awareness meets real transformation—minus the fluff, plus a badass crew that’s got your back. 💥
We dive into mind-blowing meditations, question our programming, and break through the patterns holding us back—all in a safe, non-judgy, radically supportive space. It’s a mix of deep soul work and straight-up magic. ✨
If you’re down to take 100% responsibility for your reality and grow alongside a powerhouse community, this is your invitation. 🚀
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Our full podcast convo with Courtenay Turner is up and rearin' to validate just about everything Emily and I have been talking about for the past nine years.
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